The Coolest Piece of Mail I’ve Ever Received.
You may all be wondering what the heck this is…. well, I stumbled out of my room in a waking fog and found this in my chair. All my housemates were confessing was that it showed up to my door this delivered by an omnious black SUV. They didn’t see who dropped it off.
Great. I once got an eight foot bull whip in the mail from Maxim Magazine randomly. But, this was obviously a guitar and trying to remember what random musician that might be obsessed with me. I seriously almost dialed a few long distance numbers from the past and then I saw the label…
X: TO MISS DESTRUCTO <3 Sylvie
What the heck is this…
Have You Given Up On The Good In People?
Simply put, without too much detail or spiritual reason…I have always believed that people meet each other for a reason. There was a part of my past I locked away for years with a plane ride to anywhere but where I was. I was left in the burning ashes of a great fire, thinking I had made the biggest mistake in my life. I realize now it had made me a phoenix sent into flight, if none of that had happened in my life and I didn’t take a huge risk and leave it all behind. I would never be doing what I am doing today. Things would for sure be majorly different if I had chose to let someone else be in control of my life. But somethings still stay the same in sinewy rhythms… fleeting but I still somehow have a pulse of memories that haunt me.
Time has passed… I am amazed with where life has brought me in the last few years. The road again has lead me to a point of great decisions. It’s my first time being single in a long while, I have a built an small empire in only a short time. I can honestly say, I am blessed. I love the people that have came into my life. My friends even my enemies. You all make it happen.. you fuel me. Yet. There’s something greatly missing… I should be healed, I should be able to trust. to love. to allow myself to be close to anything other a cup of coffee. It’s the only thing I know that will never fail me, unless it’s decaf. It seemed like I was starting to give up on the genuine good in people…
What is Busch Garden’s Secret New Attraction?
Today I received a special message from President Jim Dean of Busch Gardens to Missdestructo.com viewers. Such a tease that Jim Dean, seriously… what could this new attraction be? Destructo Derby? Land of the Tweets?
Check it out…
Jeepers Creepers: Dealing with Online Stalkers
Have you ever had an online friend that became an online fiend? It usually starts off innocent, a friend request, a tweet.. then the persistent messages…wanting you to chat with them, wanting to meet up with you in real life, odd worded messages that give you that “ick” feeling in your stomach? With the rise of social networks and the ease of finding or meeting people through social media sites, I have personally known many women and men that have had very terrifying experiences because of “just being nice”. Here’s a few ways you can spot those stalkers and stop any situation before it becomes out of control…
How To Defeat Mental Swampass
“When there is nothing left to burn, you have to set yourself on fire”- STARS
The weather outside in Florida isn’t the only thing that has been funky. Recently, there has been many life changes that have left me a bit in of what I like to call “mental swampass”. What this means is that, you know that feeling after you’ve been outside in the sun all day? That nasty feeling that leaves you feeling accomplished but sweaty, tired and just wanting to take a nap. Yep, I believe that’s called a “hot mess”… Oh yeah, I am totally there… someone please throw me in the pool, maybe some gold gilded half naked men serving me sushi and cocktails?
I haven’t been myself much lately, i’ve been quite quiet and a little distant. I’ve been reading a lot, thinking too much and not saying enough of what I should say to those I should say to in an epically poetic fashion. I can’t think of words, I have been finding myself in thought running into doors and almost cars. I feel like a stranger in my own town, in my own mind… I should be feeling better, my dad is gaining strength back, I just got a rockin new haircut, i’ve got great things going for me career wise, lots of trips coming up to Vegas, NYC, Atlanta and Greenville, above all I absolutely love what I do. Okay universe, okay… I get it… but why do I feel so foggy? I seriously feel like ET in that god awful Atari game, I just fell in that damn hole…
Take Risks: What Have You Always Wanted To Do In Life?
For me, i’ve always wanted to cut my hair super short… to have a punk rawkin mohawk or a cute Audrey Hepburn do. I’ve always had this motto in my head, “Do it while you are young”… today, it was “It’s only hair…” That’s right folks, I have went from a bob to a super short pixie cut. As my friend Allie from That Girl Allie put it “The shot heard around the world” as if I can’t count the number of comments I received when I announced the news online earlier of my new ‘do.
Was this planned. Uh no. Yes, that was decided just this morning…No, i’ve never had my hair this short. Honestly. It was nerve racking yet thrilling to finally do something i’ve always wanted to do. Something in me has always wanted to try a short hairstyle like this, but I was always with that feeling… “I’ll look hideously boyish”. I’ve always been one to oooh and ah over the short haired divas like Annie Lennox and all those ladies that rock the androgynous style. I figured what the hell, it’s only hair… if it was only that easy to decide since my hair is such a part of the Miss Destructo brand, but it’s about time I got away from that old image and haircut that still didn’t feel like ME.
